of new places, faces and phases… (part 1)

The last quarter of 2011 brought so many changes in my life that to say that it’s one heck of a quarter is an understatement.

In the month of October I broke up with my most recent flame Mr. Introvert.  I met Mr. Introvert through a site www.planetromeo.com which, for the uninitiated, is a sight where gay guys cruise other gay guys.  Pretty simple right? Well.. after you’ve sifted through the guys out there just to “play” and money boys who would want nothing more than to squeeze you out of your hard-earned pesos, you actually get to meet guys who are, who you’d call a catch.

Mr. Introvert and I started dating about June of 2010 and we “fell in love”.  *wink*.  About two months after, I moved into his place, since the lease on my condo was up for renewal.  We both decided it would be economical if we just stayed in one place.  It was the logical thing to do, considering I was spending most of my time there, or he would spend most of his time at my condo.  It was a mature relationship.  We barely fought and we generally had a good time.  Sex was not the best but it was satisfying.  I genuinely loved the guy… but… we were just too different.  His being an introvert and my being an extrovert were tearing us apart.

After about a year of dating we decided to end the relationship.  I honestly thought that our break up was one of the most mature breakups I’ve had since I started dating, but boy, was I wrong.  To cut a very long and unhealthy story short, suffice to say that we ended things on a very sour note – him being bitter and sour about the whole break up.

Since Mr. Introvert and I decided to end our relationship, I quickly had to find a new place. Luckily, Mr. Introvert (during the time that we were still friends) was able to find this apartment near our old place which made it very ideal considering that I needed to retain my nanny to take care of my dog, and of course me. :0)

… to be continued.

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